Always, Sometimes, Never
How to sort activities when setting boundaries with toddlers: These are some of my examples, you may find you have different ideas in each category.
Always: these activities get the green light 99% of the time. They are safe, age appropriate and often are something your toddler can do with less assistance. These tasks are also routines that you are trying to teach, like tidying up, brushing teeth, sorting laundry, saying please, sharing, saying hi or bye to friends.